tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2545713293332836232.post812135286006092907..comments2024-03-28T01:03:32.077-07:00Comments on Scary Azeri : C'est la vie, or shit happens.scaryazerihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08209595384194222929noreply@blogger.comBlogger17125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2545713293332836232.post-59509840458046226252011-03-08T13:05:30.243-08:002011-03-08T13:05:30.243-08:00@Jale: Thank you.
@Candace: Maybe, one day. A res...@Jale: Thank you.<br /><br />@Candace: Maybe, one day. A rescue pet from a shelter is a good idea. Not for a while though. :)scaryazerihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08209595384194222929noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2545713293332836232.post-77626871217933245562011-03-08T12:54:56.621-08:002011-03-08T12:54:56.621-08:00Hi- Losing a pet is very hard. I had my dog put t...Hi- Losing a pet is very hard. I had my dog put to sleep two years ago-she had the same problems as your dog-she could not get up, eat....She was my dog for 15 years. I could not imagine owning another dog or going through that awful experience again. But, I started hanging around pet shelters and now I have another dog that was abandoned.<br />Something someone said stuck with me. Its about Candacehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13884023388469190762noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2545713293332836232.post-78189880501446320612011-03-08T03:10:12.690-08:002011-03-08T03:10:12.690-08:00@Sharon: If we were doing it for us, we would have...@Sharon: If we were doing it for us, we would have done it a few months ago. I had to make sure it was right for him, and not only because it was inconvenient for us....Anyway. I know it was right, but it does not make us feel any better. As I said- NO MORE!scaryazerihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08209595384194222929noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2545713293332836232.post-69045819213092857832011-03-08T02:44:06.257-08:002011-03-08T02:44:06.257-08:00There is rarely right or wrong in these things. I...There is rarely right or wrong in these things. I know you loved Roy, and there are always regrets when someone/animal we love dies. Harder when you have to make a decision. You did the right thing for you, and Roy did not suffer as a consequence of that.Sharonnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2545713293332836232.post-74172170031500126662011-03-07T20:00:34.764-08:002011-03-07T20:00:34.764-08:00What a sad post... I am sorry scaryazeri that one ...What a sad post... I am sorry scaryazeri that one person you decided to talk to did not support you the way you needed it!Jalehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18042071378249963729noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2545713293332836232.post-60613654287087427942011-03-07T13:28:00.615-08:002011-03-07T13:28:00.615-08:00@Matanat: :))) OK, I am glad you clarified that. Y...@Matanat: :))) OK, I am glad you clarified that. Yes, happy Woman's day! I dont ever remember about it anymore.:)scaryazerihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08209595384194222929noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2545713293332836232.post-68900050491644800182011-03-07T13:21:40.796-08:002011-03-07T13:21:40.796-08:00I liked your comment on Mark's comment :) Not ...I liked your comment on Mark's comment :) Not that I didn't like your other comments - I liked them all!<br /><br />Yes, friends should be there to tell us things that make us feel good about ourselves, think highly of ourselves even if they have to tell lies for this.<br /><br />By the way, dearest Scary, Happy Women's Day to you!Matanathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16857958004345909964noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2545713293332836232.post-26918450861626449602011-03-07T11:34:08.687-08:002011-03-07T11:34:08.687-08:00@Ana@ Yes, that is true. But...Perhaps because I a...@Ana@ Yes, that is true. But...Perhaps because I am so hormonal, I told her what I thought. and instead of simply admitting that it might have not been the best thing to say to a friend in such a moment, she would only argue more, and we got in a fight. :) So now, it is beyond the original intention. It got worse because both of us are convinced the other is wrong. as I said, shit happens! :)scaryazerihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08209595384194222929noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2545713293332836232.post-128610374104586892011-03-07T05:36:45.156-08:002011-03-07T05:36:45.156-08:00I was never in your situation (i.e., having to put...I was never in your situation (i.e., having to put a pet down), so I can't really comment on it. But it would be really sad if, on top of losing a loved pet, you also lost a close friend.<br /><br />Yes, maybe she should have said something else... or, even better, say nothing at all and just listen / read. But the thing is she was 'just' a well-intentioned person, not a psychologist Ana Isabel Canhotohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14770534832618844156noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2545713293332836232.post-5486351344162359812011-03-07T00:40:05.056-08:002011-03-07T00:40:05.056-08:00@Kaweh: It really is very difficult to decide, wha...@Kaweh: It really is very difficult to decide, what is better. I had this image in my head that he would just get old and fall asleep in his bed one day. Unfortunately, that does not happen as peacefully as we wish. It is also harder with pets than with humans, because you don't know how much they understand, they can't explain what they feel/want and they trust you 100%, which makes it scaryazerihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08209595384194222929noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2545713293332836232.post-14787311540434641802011-03-07T00:20:46.608-08:002011-03-07T00:20:46.608-08:00I've been through a similar situation with my ...I've been through a similar situation with my cat a couple of years back, he was very ill but unlike you I didn't have him put to sleep. Couldn't bring myself to it.<br />Then one day I found him outside lying there, not breathing. I know he was suffering, I know it was selfish of me to not put him to sleep, and now I deeply, deeply regret it. I suppose what I'm trying to say is Khttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15422106305172799125noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2545713293332836232.post-7818346494182370592011-03-07T00:17:23.324-08:002011-03-07T00:17:23.324-08:00@Solnushka: Yes, good point, but husband had the w...@Solnushka: Yes, good point, but husband had the worst part to deal with, so it would be cruel to go on and on to him about it.<br /><br />@anonymous and Vicki: Thanks. We will see if I ever brave another dog, at the moment I am quite looking forward to a free life without that commitment, to be honest. <br /><br />@Mark: That sort of implies you did not like previous ones? How many did you not scaryazerihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08209595384194222929noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2545713293332836232.post-85342474740019426032011-03-06T16:23:14.011-08:002011-03-06T16:23:14.011-08:00I liked this blog entry.I liked this blog entry.Markhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05717507846496229304noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2545713293332836232.post-41784707619414412562011-03-06T15:06:27.413-08:002011-03-06T15:06:27.413-08:00I am so, so, so sorry.
We had a dog, too, when I ...I am so, so, so sorry.<br /><br />We had a dog, too, when I was growing up and that we had to put to sleep when I was a junior in college. Her name was Babe and she was a collie and she was the most patient and loveable dog that I have yet to come across. That summer, she was miserable because she had terrible arthritis, fleas, and generally her quality of life was horrible. My parents decided Vickihttp://blog.vickiboykis.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2545713293332836232.post-87088036687877748352011-03-06T14:36:14.112-08:002011-03-06T14:36:14.112-08:00Darling, i am very sorry.your dog was more than a ...Darling, i am very sorry.your dog was more than a pet, he was a member/part of your family. it is really difficult to decide between being sensitive and what should be done. i believe, i would have done the same if i had had a dog.you were very lucky having him around you for all these years. but when time comes to say goodbye, we have to accept it. you shouldn't feel guilty. you were brave Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2545713293332836232.post-7809071989759169372011-03-06T13:56:57.894-08:002011-03-06T13:56:57.894-08:00I do think the only people who should have to put ...I do think the only people who should have to put up with should haves are husbands, and then, of course, they need to hear it a lot.<br /><br />It's hard is losing a pet, and it's a hard decision to make. There's lways going to be something in it to feel guilty about, but I don;t think you should (ha!) in this case.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2545713293332836232.post-55377322483322310872011-03-06T13:49:10.197-08:002011-03-06T13:49:10.197-08:00I've never had a pet, so I might not be 100% a...I've never had a pet, so I might not be 100% able to understsand your feelings. But I'm aware your decision was anything but easy.<br />Cheer up!Gabrielahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03280432296207747625noreply@blogger.com